Claim your Confidence
Create secure, fulfilling, connected relationships
If you're here, you probably have some questions.
Reading books and listening to podcasts is great, but it's not the same as talking to a real, live human!
I help people just like you all the time. If you're confused, scared, and can’t keep doing this, I hear you. I can help you figure out what you want, and how to ask for it.
Book a free call to get started.
And who is it for?
Relationship coaching focuses on clarifying how to get from where you are, to where you want to be. Counseling focuses on healing trauma and past hurts. In each session of relationship coaching, you will take a meaningful step towards your goals. We make space for healing, without losing momentum.
You want clarity around your desires, needs, and boundaries, and the confidence to honor them
You want to feel confident, secure, and rooted in yourself in relationships
You’re navigating polyamory or open relationships and want grounded support
You want to build communication and relational skills that deepen trust and closeness
You’re learning how to regulate your nervous system in relationships
You want me to tell you what relationship structure you should choose
You’re looking for someone to side with you against your partner
You’re not open to examining your own boundaries, capacity, or communication patterns
You want quick fixes without doing any internal work
You’re currently in crisis and need therapeutic or emergency support
Do you push people toward polyamory?
No. My work is about choice, not conversion.
Is your work only for couples?
No. My work starts with you as an individual.
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. This is coaching, focused on clarity, skills, and forward movement. There is room for healing, but the emphasis is on where you’re going.
Do I need to be non-monogamous to work with you?
Not at all. Many clients are unsure what’s right for them.
Let’s have a short, no-pressure conversation and find out whether this is the right next step for you.
I know that you can have the secure, connected, fulfilling relationships you desire.
My clients tell me that I help Polyamory seem less scary, and my friends wonder how I am always so content in my partnerships.
I can’t wait to walk alongside you as you build confidence, gain clarity, and grow into the empowered, badass person I know you are inside.
If you're looking to gain confidence and feel secure, you're on the right track
These books are a solid starting point if you’re curious about non-monogamy, opening a relationship, or making sense of attachment, jealousy, desire, and emotional safety.